When discussing international dating, the question of legality always arises. “Is this legal?” “Are these women forced?” The answer is a resounding YES, it is legal, and NO, they are not forced.
In fact, international dating is one of the most regulated relationship industries in the world, thanks to a specific US law called IMBRA. This guide explains what IMBRA is, why it exists, and how it actually protects you as a dater.
What is IMBRA?
The International Marriage Broker Regulation Act (IMBRA) is a US federal law passed in 2005. It requires international dating agencies (brokers) to perform background checks on US male clients and disclose their criminal and marital history to the foreign women they wish to contact.
Why IMBRA is Good for You (The Dater)
Many men view IMBRA as a hassle because it requires filling out a form before getting contact info. However, it is actually your biggest safety net.
Benefits of IMBRA Compliance
- Filters Out Scammers: Scam agencies don’t bother with IMBRA compliance. If a site asks for your IMBRA form, it’s a sign they are legitimate and following US law.
- Protects Women: By ensuring men are vetted, it makes women feel safer joining the agency, attracting higher-quality, serious candidates.
- Visa Success: Following IMBRA protocols from day one ensures your K-1 Visa application won’t be rejected later for non-disclosure.
The IMBRA Process: Step-by-Step
Here is what actually happens when you use a compliant agency like **A Foreign Affair**:
1. Sign Up
You create a profile on the dating site. This part is free and requires no special forms.
2. Request Contact
When you decide to exchange contact info or meet a specific woman, you must complete a simple IMBRA disclosure form.
3. Disclosure
The agency translates your background summary (marital history, criminal record) and provides it to the woman.
4. Consent
The woman signs a form stating she has read your background and consents to communicate. This document is vital for your future visa!
Red Flags: Non-Compliant Sites
If a site claims to be an “International Marriage Agency” but does not mention IMBRA or ask for your background info before selling you contact details, be very careful.
Why Avoid Non-IMBRA Sites?
- Illegal Operation: They are likely operating illegally under US law if they are US-based.
- Visa Denial Risk: USCIS asks about IMBRA compliance during the visa interview. Lack of proof can lead to delays or denial.
- Scam High Risk: These sites are often “pay-per-letter” scams with no intention of facilitating real meetings or marriages.
10 Frequently Asked Questions (FAQ) on IMBRA
Does IMBRA apply to all dating sites?
It applies to “International Marriage Brokers.” General dating apps like Tinder are exempt because their primary business model isn’t selling contact info for marriage purposes.
Do I need a clean criminal record?
Not necessarily. You must *disclose* your record. Certain violent crimes or sex offenses will disqualify you from a K-1 visa, but minor issues generally just need to be revealed to the woman.
Is my privacy protected?
Yes. The information is only shared with the specific women you choose to contact. It is not made public.
Does A Foreign Affair follow IMBRA?
Yes, AFA is fully IMBRA compliant. They handle all the paperwork and translation for you, which is a major service included in their fees.
What about finding a wife in the Philippines?
The Philippines has its own law (RA 6955) restricting the business of “mail-order brides,” but professional introduction agencies operate legally by facilitating *dating* and *introductions*, not “selling” wives.
Can I skip IMBRA if I meet her on Facebook?
If you meet independently on social media, IMBRA rules for brokers don’t apply to you directly. However, you still must disclose criminal history on your visa application.
Does IMBRA cost money?
The agency may charge a small fee for processing and translating the IMBRA forms, or it may be included in your membership/tour cost.
What if I lie on the form?
Lying is a federal offense and will almost certainly result in a permanent ban on sponsoring a visa for your fiancée.
Does the woman have to sign anything?
Yes, she signs a consent form acknowledging she received your background info. This form is often required by the US Embassy during her visa interview.
Is IMBRA a good thing?
Ultimately, yes. It weeds out predators, protects women, and ensures that the couples who move forward are serious, transparent, and safe.
Conclusion: Compliance is Confidence
Don’t view IMBRA as a hurdle. View it as a badge of legitimacy. Using a compliant agency means you are on the safe, legal path to bringing your wife home.
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