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Romance Tour to Tokyo, Japan: An Exclusive Speed Dating Event

Get ready for an unprecedented event in international dating! A Foreign Affair is excited to announce its first-ever singles tour to Tokyo, Japan—and it’s unlike any event they’ve hosted before. This is your chance to meet beautiful, elegant, and traditional Japanese women in a highly personalized and effective format. This guide will cover everything you need to know about this exclusive and unforgettable experience.

Why Japan? The Allure of Japanese Women

Japanese women are desired by men worldwide for their unique combination of traditional grace and modern sophistication. They are known for being:

• Incredibly Feminine and Elegant: Japanese culture places a high value on grace, politeness, and femininity.
• Loyal and Respectful: They are raised with a deep sense of loyalty and respect for their partners.
• Intelligent and Interesting: With a high level of education and a rich cultural background, they make for fascinating and engaging companions.

A Unique Speed Dating Experience

This dating tour is not a typical large-scale social. It’s an exclusive, intimate speed dating experience designed for maximum personal connection.

What’s Included in Your Tokyo Dating Tour?

Your tour package is designed to handle all the logistics so you can focus on making meaningful connections.

Tentative Itinerary (November 5-11, 2026)

Here is a sample of what this incredible week looks like:

Additional Details to Note:

• Expect an average age difference of 5–10 years between participants.
• Tokyo hotel rooms are known for being compact but are modern, clean, and comfortable.

Frequently Asked Questions (FAQ)

How many Japanese women can I meet on this Romance Tour?

Because this tour is limited to 16 men with a 1:1 ratio, you will meet 16 different women at each speed dating event. With at least three unique events planned, you can expect to personally meet approximately 48 different women.

Are all the women serious about meeting someone for marriage?

Yes. Every woman who participates is a member of the agency and has been personally screened. They are all sincerely looking for a long-term, committed relationship or marriage with a Western man.

What kind of women will I meet on one of these singles vacations?

You will meet a diverse group of intelligent, traditional, and elegant Japanese women. Many are professionals with careers but hold a deep desire to find a loving husband and build a family. You can expect them to be polite, well-mannered, and genuinely interested in getting to know you.

What about language barriers?

You do not need to speak Japanese. AFA will have professional translators and matchmakers on hand during all the speed dating events to facilitate smooth and clear communication, ensuring you can connect on a deeper level.

Is food included in the tour package?

The tour package includes daily breakfast at the hotel and the romantic dinner cruise. For other meals and your personal dates during the “open for dating” evenings, you will be responsible for your own expenses.

What is not included in this singles tour?

Your international airfare to and from Tokyo is not included. Additionally, lunches, dinners (except for the dinner cruise), and any expenses for personal dates or optional activities are not included in the tour price.

Do the dating tours involve sex tourism?

Absolutely not. A Foreign Affair operates as a legitimate international marriage agency. The tours are designed for sincere men looking for a serious relationship and marriage. The women you meet are looking for a husband, not a casual encounter. Any behavior to the contrary is not tolerated.

Why is this tour a “speed dating” format instead of a large social?

The speed dating format is chosen for this exclusive tour to guarantee a 1:1 ratio and ensure every man has a personal, one-on-one conversation with every woman. It’s a more intimate and focused approach than the larger social events held on other tours.

Is an age gap acceptable when dating Japanese women?

Yes, an age gap is generally very acceptable, especially with an older Western man. Japanese women often value the maturity, stability, and experience that an older partner can provide. The tour expects an average age difference of 5-10 years.

What happens on the “open for dating” evenings?

These are your opportunities to take the connections you made during the speed dating events to the next level. You are free to ask a woman you liked out for a personal, one-on-one dinner date to get to know her better outside of the structured event.

What is the success rate of the tours?

While marriage is never guaranteed, AFA has one of the highest success rates in the industry, facilitating hundreds of successful marriages each year. The unique, personalized format of this Japan tour is designed to maximize your chances of finding a compatible partner.

What should I wear to the speed dating events?

Dress to impress. In Japan, appearances matter. Smart casual attire is a minimum. Think a nice pair of trousers, a button-down shirt, and perhaps a blazer. You want to look sharp and respectable.

Are there singles tours organized to other destinations?

Yes. A Foreign Affair is the largest romance tour company in the world and offers tours to numerous destinations in Latin America, other parts of Asia, and Eastern Europe. You can find their full schedule on their website.

Is this tour a good value for the money?

For a 7-day/6-night tour priced at $3995, this exclusive, small-group experience offers incredible value. When you consider the guaranteed 1:1 ratio, personalized attention, and all-inclusive nature (hotel, tours, events), it’s a premium investment for a man serious about finding a Japanese wife.

What if I meet someone special? What’s the next step?

If you make a strong connection, the next step is to continue building the relationship after the tour. If things progress towards marriage, AFA can provide resources and guidance for the K-1 Fiancé Visa process.